高中大学essay论文作业代写例子 Personal Experiences and Development
Personal Experiences and Development
It is commonly accepted that one’s experiences at home will influence a person’s health as well as personality greatly. I always believe that what makes me today depends on how my family members have been caring for me. I was told that when I was born, my family members were very surprised because I was a lot smaller and lighter than most of other babies.
However, I am lucky because my parents and grand parents are very open minded. Instead of worrying me being shorter than other people, they were thinking my weight was not a serious problem as long as I was healthy. Besides, probably because I was a bit thinner than other people, my legs looked a lot longer than others so I had the habit of running wild around and I could also run faster than boys as well. During that time my mum kept joking about how fast I could run. I believe that because of my mum’s positive attitude towards life that makes me full of positive energy right now.
Although I was thinner than other kids, I did not catch colds or flu as often as my other classmates. However, one time, I was affected by measles seriously and at the same time, I caught a cold too. But my parents took care of me patiently and took me to a professional doctor who knew Chinese medicine well because my parents think that western medicine can bring me too many side effects. After that time, I hardly got infected with serious illness anymore and I believe my family background is relevant in it. In fact, my mum graduated from a famous university with the background of medical care, therefore, she pays a lot of attention in what I eat in daily life but unlike other mothers of my classmates, she does not strictly restrict what I am allowed to eat and what I am forbidden to eat. However, I suffered from one problem: whenever I eat chocolate, my nose would bleed. Therefore, my mum came up with a way to help me solve this problem. Instead of forbidding me to have chocolate, she would replace chocolate with other kinds of sweets that taste similar. This is why I am now unlike other children who are too picky. In fact, for me, if I am offered several dishes among which there are a few ones that I do no like, I would not push them away and pout, but I would choose the one dish that fits me. According to experts in psychological, they believe that one’s health and personality are related to the childhood experience of oneself.
One of the most famous psychologist named Erick. H. Erikson had passed onto us his legacy about a person’s psychological development, which is related to his life experiences.
He had mentioned that there are several stages in our lives and every stage is related to a person’s psychological struggle and these struggles will greatly contribute to a person’s personality after he or she grows up. In my case, when I was little, I resented having rice and whenever my mum tried to feed me with rice, I cried out loud but she had never scolded me or hit me for this. Instead, she taught me the importance of having rich with patience. In the end, I could accept having rice without complaining or pouting. (Benjamin Kissin, 2012)
It is obvious that the way that my mum and my dad have been teaching me helped me a lot in shaping my personality. As the psychologist Erick. H. Erikson has stated, a person’s personality is shaped by the psychological struggle that he or she had been put in. ((Benjamin Kissin, 2012)
Therefore, if a person has grown up in a divorced family in which this person’s father and mother keep arguing, his personality will be badly influenced and he would have a bad temper or he would get angry over trifle things. Also, if this person has been growing with a parent who constantly nags about what he can eat or what he is forbidden to eat. It is unlikely that this person will ever be healthy because first he might pay for the food that his or her parents forbid him or her to eat. Also, this person will end up being manipulative and unhealthy too. However, I feel lucky that I do not have the same problem because my parents have been patient and kind with me.
The living environment will also contribute a lot to this person’s reorganization of characters and egos. I myself am a positive and confident person because my parents have been encouraging me and they never scold me for any mistakes that I make. Even when I was picky about food when I was little, they simply calmly told me that having meat and vegetable and a balanced meal will help me get prettier and healthier. Therefore, I get rich of this bad habit and I am more than willing to have a variety of food. (Mary Jane Kehily, 2013)
To sum up, a person’s childhood experience and psychological struggle will greatly contribute to his or her health as well as shape this person’s personality and character. Due to my parents’ wise way of mentoring, I am now a healthy girl with positive energy and positive attitude as well
Benjamin Kissin, 2012, Conscious and Unconscious Programs in the Brain, Springer Science & Business Media
E H Erikson, 2014, Childhood And Society, Random House
Mary Jane Kehily, 2013, Understanding childhood: A Cross Disciplinary Approach, Policy Press